Personal instructions for after your death Start with a conversation
ANY LAST WORDS?Tell us privately

ANY LAST WORDS? / BESPOKE

Not every farewell follows the script.

A particular entrance. An unexpected reading. A stranger standing quietly at a distance.

An illustrative suited figure beside a car in a quiet Australian landscape

Illustrative scene. It does not depict a customer, representative or available hire vehicle.

Your idea deserves a conversation.

Bespoke work can include staged mourning, a carefully timed appearance, an original performance, particular clothing, music or a symbolic action. These are possibilities to assess, not packages that guarantee acceptance.

I promised I’d take this to the grave.
I never said it had to stay there.

An illustrative Final Word. Your words, individually considered.

A little mystery. Clear boundaries.

A performance may remain enigmatic. We will not knowingly lie for you or falsely claim a personal relationship. Mystery cannot replace truthful answers needed for access, safety, legal requirements or professional coordination. No forced entry, impersonated authority or unapproved disruption.

Dress the part. Arrive your way.

Premium Presentation can explore a particular suit, styling or arrival vehicle. You can request a car for the day; its hire fee, travel and other supplier costs are individually quoted. A photograph is not a promise of that exact car, especially years from now.

We record essential details separately from preferences. You approve acceptable substitutes and the budget before they are needed.

Prefer something less conventional? From specific wardrobe and character presentation to deliberately absurd or theatrical delivery, the person carrying your message can become part of the instruction.

A costume, an anonymous figure or a character of your own creation: unusual presentations are bespoke, subject to availability, permissions, safety and feasibility. Any required character or performance rights must be confirmed before a presentation is agreed.

Who carries it out?

Who delivers it matters too. You can request a representative whose presentation suits the instruction — discreet, traditional, alternative, understated or something more specific. We assess the fit, availability and any approved substitutes with you.

An appropriate ALW representative carries out the agreed plan. It must also consider a vetted substitute, remote participation and a later delivery if timing or travel makes the original arrangement impossible. Only alternatives you have approved are available to use; we do not promise a backup person is always available.

ALW intends to establish a formal Representative Network. The first version may use a very small manually coordinated, vetted pool; a nationwide service and recruitment platform are future work.

Start with the broad outline.

Tell us the type of idea, not the sensitive story. Suitability, venue permission, safety and practical costs come before a performance is accepted.

How bespoke costs are handled ↗

A PRIVATE FIRST STEP

Something on
your mind?

You don’t need to tell us the sensitive part yet.

Tell us privately

In person. By video. Over the phone.
We start with a conversation.

A broad outline first. No sensitive instructions yet.